Why Investing in ‘We’ Over ‘Me’ Could Heal America

I am not at all inclined to spend money freely or easily, a trait I trace directly to my father. On Saturdays when I was […]
Graham Lueilwitz · 4 days ago · 2 minutes read


Beyond the "Me": Generosity as Healing Remedy

Individual Generosity: A Catalyst for National Unity

In an era plagued by loneliness and social isolation, could a shift towards greater generosity be the key to restoring our fractured nation? Experts posit that investing in "we" rather than "me" could foster a sense of community, reduce distrust, and reignite participation in our democracy.

America's staggering debt and increasing individualism have eroded our commitment to public goods such as education, healthcare, and infrastructure.

\u201cCheap is expensive,\u201d argues journalist Christine Speer Lejeune. By reconsidering our cost-benefit analyses, we can invest in projects that benefit not only ourselves but our society as a whole. Supporting local businesses, paying fair wages, and contributing to charitable organizations can create a virtuous cycle of economic opportunity and community well-being.

"As they say, cheap is expensive. Maybe it's time we all reconsider what a deal really looks like and just pony up, buttercup."

Lessons from Sweden: Trust, Generosity, and Well-being

Sweden, renowned for its high taxes and universal welfare system, offers a compelling example of how generosity can foster social cohesion.

Swedes demonstrate a high level of trust in their government, believing that public funds will be invested wisely in essential services. This trust contributes to a more equitable society, where all citizens share in the benefits of prosperity.

In contrast, the United States struggles with a taxation system that places a disproportionate burden on the poor and middle class. This inequity, coupled with our declining trust in institutions, has hindered investment in public goods and exacerbated social divides.

Studies have shown that engaging in acts of generosity and altruism can promote physical and mental well-being. By actively participating in our communities, we foster a sense of purpose and belonging.

A Call for Recalibration: Investing in the "We"

Lejeune urges a recalibration of our spending habits and values:

  • Support local journalism by paying for subscriptions.
  • Pay fair prices for coffee and other goods, fostering sustainable practices and economic fairness.
  • Invest in public education and infrastructure, recognizing their vital role in maintaining a thriving society.

Shifting our focus towards investing in the "we" can create a brighter future for ourselves and our nation.